postpartum lecture

I went to my OB/GYN today for my postpartum check-up. The whole thing started out with Gabriel seeing his picture on the wall in the waiting area and saying, "He's funny!" He likes Dr. Leland's sense of humor. The man has as great of a bedside manner for women in labor as he does for children. He always gets a high-five from Gabriel and makes him laugh.

After befriending Gabriel for the millionth time, he proceeded to ask me if I am having the baby blues. I said that I was generally feeling fine. He asked me how long I planned on breastfeeding. I told him that I would probably do it for a year, like I did with Gabriel. He asked me if I was having unprotected sex. I told him that I don't care if I get pregnant again and wasn't really worried about getting pregnant since I was breastfeeding so often (the wonderful child likes to eat just about every hour and that is why he is such a pudgy thing) and I have yet to have a period. He looked at me and said, "Now...you realize that you can get pregnant without a period and while breastfeeding?" I acknowledged that breastfeeding is not foolproof birth control, and that it was my husband's fault that I have two boys. He just laughed and said that he guessed that I knew how it all worked and what made him feel better about the conversation was that I started it all out by saying that we didn't care how soon we had another one.